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Our words as much as our actions have a way of beautifying or otherwise damaging our relationships. Looking back at the post on marriage and divorce, if partners could imbibe the habit of always genuinely complimenting each other, making each other laugh and genuinely happy, the rate of divorce will take a downturn; I mean who doesn’t want to be with someone that compliments and makes them feel good about themselves? I tell you something; Men love compliments as well… ladies that is a secret tip to win him over. LOL! So, one may be wondering how then can I say something nice. Well, I will give a few steps to saying something nice and being intentional, I believe you will exercise due diligence to research on ways to improve communication with others. Here are some steps; Acknowledge an accomplishment, appreciate an aspect of someone’s personality, thank someone for being there, praise someone’s effort not just the outcome, comment on someone’s qualities not just their appearance, leave...

Welcome again to another article I consider important in today's world. Sit back and let me take you through the ride... Ever heard of the Thumper’s law or Thumperian principle??? It says "if you can't say something nice, don't say nothing at all," When it comes to using words, they are truly powerful; words have the power to lift a Nation and can inspire or destroy someone, so having the ability to think before you speak is something you shouldn’t be taking advantage of but many people do not recognise how powerful words are. Hmmmm.. or should I say they ju st choose to ignore the facts that words are really powerful? Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. Saying something nice is about lifting one’s co-workers, family members, friend s  acquaintances, and even foes, with genuine kind words. It takes discipline. In some cases, one may feel some kind of negative way towards others, saying something nice doesn’t necessarily mean putting those negative be...